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10:24 PM

Told myself that I shouldn't abandon my blog any longer, though part of me couldn't be bothered publishing redundant entries about my really crazy life. I figured that I might as well shift my focus into stabilizing everything, calming the storms that has been happening and at least consider myself human enough before typing an entry.. But anyway! I just feel like sharing my thought on something..

What and how do you define a real man ?

Though I'm aware that the definition varies to one's opinions, I believe that when it all boils down to one, women are all looking for the same capabilities and qualities from men. Loving, trustworthy, caring, responsible, honest.. yeah you get my drift. And needless for me to say, good looks are well, something you'd like to call a bonus;)

Being a women myself, who was born with a manipulative mind by default, I choose to ignore the truth that in actual fact, no such guy exist. So I've been all "Ohhh, he is so perfect and there is nothing about him that I would change!" until one day when God finally decide to give me a tight bitch slap on my face and forced me into accepting the unflattering reality.

It was then and there when I realize that : THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT MAN - no matter how sweet he is towards you or how much the world seemed to be filled with butterflies when he's around you, fuck you bitch, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT MAN. The more you think that he is perfect, the more you should be prepared for the undesired circumstances that will possibly occur. They would ALWAYS have some filthy things planned up on their sleeves.. afterall, guys are world's most dangerous sneaky little bastards. In another words, HE WILL GIVE YOU HELL. If you're lucky enough, it might happen during the earlier part of the relationship so you can realize how much of an asshole he is. But for a couple of you, damnit, Fuck Your Life. The duration of hell differs though because it depends on the level of humanity of the guy holds. (You'll be surprised how some guys appear to look like a human but really, they're all just plastic inside, even barbie is jealous.)

Not trying to imply that there are such things as 'perfect women', but being a woman myself and being surrounded by a few everyday, I am confident enough to state that no matter how impossible it may seem, women will try their best to be as perfect for the man of her life.

What I'm trying to say is, as I have observed different kind of relationships of couples throughout the years and also based on my own experiences, women are more enthusiastic and we put in more dedication to relationship as compared to the opposite gender. We put in effort and determination for the sake of shaping and nurturing a good and healthy relationship from the start, whereas guys, they are more of the I-do-shits-to-you-and-then-say-sorry-and-if-you-love-me-you-would-clear-that-mess-up-and-forgive-me-and-move-on-and-start-a-new-and-i-would-promise-not-to-do-it-again-but-in-the-end-i-would-break-the-promises-and-do-it-again-and-the-cycle-repeats KIND OF THING. Some situation might not be similar to what I mentioned, but i'm sure it is somewhere within that parameter. Or close.

So, really? How do you define an acceptable guy? (Note that I do not use 'prefect')

Guys (thats if there are any guy who reads my blog), we girls wants simplicity only for a reason. Because we know some of you aren't capable of anything more than that. If you could, give yourself a pat on the back. But for those who can't, please, it isn't really hard to be an Acceptable Guy, really.

All you need to do it to make your woman happy. If your only intention is to make her happy AND be faithful to her, then I'm assuming that you have no intended intentions planted in your filthy mind or heart to ever lie, cheat, or hurt her physically or emotionally. It's easy isn't it? Love has always been about exchanging feelings of interest and dedication to each other... It has never been something like :

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LOVE PACKAGES!

Includes:

-Lying

-Cheating

-Being unfaithful

-Breaking your heart

-Physical Abuse

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So do NOT, ever, abuse the meaning of LOVE.

I mean fine, what's love without arguements right? But let those arguements to be just about how he thinks it is more worth to spend his 5 minutes playing Dota rather than watching you glue your fake eyelashes on.

And as I've observed, it is pretty saddening to see how guys are more insensitive towards women's feelings how women would like to be treated. They are more bonded to their ego and worth (like as if they have any worth in the first place....tsk) rather than making the world a much easier place to live in just by putting HALF of their ego away.

Seriously? Do you think it is attractive to actually be known as the hot pimp who breaks heart? Honestly boys (yes, boys.. because some of you have not proven yourself to be called a man yet), let me tell you this. A normal guy with average looks and average wealth and one who knows how to treat a girl well and who is family-oriented, is MUCH attractive than what you thought you are, you ...you guy with 10000kg of wax on your head ! (I am just assuming that most guys who think that they are hot has a whole lot of wax on their hair. Not referring to anyone in particular).

So please. You guys know that you are already at the disadvantage by being bundled up with something called an ego from birth.. So to actually stabilize that scale, having good attitude would be a perfect help. After all, treat your woman like how you'd like your dad to treat your mum or how a guy would treat your sister :)

Crosses and circles,

farah

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